Sexual experiences and fantasies are as varied as the people who partake in their glorious pleasures. I think the connection is a small one, because few molested boys masturbate prone and few males who masturbate prone claim to have been molested. I started masturbating prone at the age of 13, and it was the only way of masturbation I knew. Most people who reported times of 30 minutes or more used the Stop & Go method (also called "edging") to approach orgasm, back off and rest as it approached, and then resume masturbating when the urgency to climax subsides.
2. To be clear, I believe a habit of masturbation is a real problem, something that can easily train men to seek out solo-sex as the primary purpose of their sexuality, and this is against God's design. Practice staying very close to an ejaculatory orgasm, almost continuously feeling a hardening of your seminal vesicles.
Well, I would swear off for a few days and go back to rubbing myself to orgasm. But since then I started doing it more often and now the normal way is what I use 99% of the time. Sex never has done much for me at all, and although maybe oral or fingering may feel somewhat good, I never have felt even close to orgasming.
I started it because it was easy to not be caught while doing it and because I didn't want to get my hands wet when I masturbated before sleeping. Over the next days and weeks, this fantasy changed to involve other women I knew, teachers at school, neighbours and some distant relatives.
The most confusing part of the matter was that it was so difficult trying to find someone who didn't immediately condemn masturbation on account of pornography, which made up the overwhelming majority of people I could turn to. I was told over and over, Masturbation is sin because it too often leads to lust.” Well, while I know what a girl's breasts look like thanks to Hollywood, I don't actually have any sort of images readily available of a fully naked woman, nor do I fantasize about women at all.
But it would be good for you to male masturbation not only leave prone masturbation behind forever, but any way of masturbating that is painful. Not only that, I've done it 6 times in the past 4 days. A: If you quit masturbating prone 20 years ago, your orgasms ought to be normal.